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jhofficial Forum General


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Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 2:07 pm Post subject: Gay-Marriage Activists Look Ahead After Big Defeat in Maine |
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By MICHAEL A. LINDENBERGER Michael A. Lindenberger
Wed Nov 4, 10:20 am ET
Mainers' 53-47 vote to reject gay marriage does more than simply slap down a law that just six months ago had made Maine America's second state to permit same-sex couples to wed. With voters thronging to the polls, the closely watched - and ultimately not very close - vote extended the winning streak of gay marriage opponents nationwide, who have now prevailed in more than 30 straight state elections over whether to allow gays to marry. Just like Californians one year ago, Maine voters insisted on having their own say on an issue that simply will not go away.
Watching the results come in at the historic Eastland Park Hotel in downtown Portland, Scott Fish of the Stand for Marriage Maine campaign told TIME the other side had acted with too much haste, and too little respect for voters' wishes. "What's the hurry [for gay marriage]?" asked Fish, whose group began seeking a so-called "people's veto" almost immediately after Maine's Democratic (and Catholic) Gov. John Baldacci signed the gay marriage bill in May. (See a visual history of gay rights in America.)
But Maine's vote, much like all of the states before it, including California's vote on Prop 8 12 months ago, will do little to slow the fight over gay marriage. Not in Maine, where Tuesday's vote is only the equivalent of a veto and can be easily reversed by lawmakers when they next meet, and not in the rest of America, where the issue continues to roil courthouses and statehouses alike. "Ultimately this is going to have to have a national resolution," says same-sex marriage activist Mary Bonauto, one of the nation's top lawyers involved in the campaign to legalize gay marriage. "It's about aligning promises found in the Constitution with America's laws." A leader in Maine's campaign to uphold gay marriage, Bonauto is best known for arguing the same-sex case that led the Massachusetts Supreme Court to strike down prohibitions against gay marriage in a hugely influential 2003 decision that paved the way for that state to become the first to permit gay marriage in 2004.
That decision has been cited in numerous cases that have followed, as the number of states whose courts have demanded equal marriage rights for gays has grown. But those same cases have also helped fuel opponents, who argue gay marriage is being foisted upon America by out-of-touch judges. In order to counter that argument, Bonauto and other gay-marriage activists in Maine who began organizing to press for gay marriage in Maine decided to avoid taking the issue to court. Instead, they set about electing lawmakers friendly to their cause two years ago, and this year successfully convinced the legislature to become the nation's first to establish gay marriage by statute, rather than decree. "Frankly, we had heard the criticisms about going the court route, and so we said, 'Fine, we'll go to the legislature,'" says Bonauto. "And it has been an incredible campaign." (Watch a video about gay marriage ban in Florida.)
That campaign looked to be winning for much of Tuesday evening. Looking at early vote totals, CNN legal affairs analyst Jeffrey Toobin said if the trend held, the vote in Maine would have enormous implications in favor of gay marriage elsewhere. "That's a big cultural change," he said. "Every time voters have spoken - every time - they have rejected gay marriage. But this shows the country is changing."
But what Toobin and others were seeing early were the returns from the cities, towns and suburbs in Maine. In more rural areas, votes were being counted by hand. By midnight, the momentum had swung the other way, and gay-marriage opponents' lead continued to grow into the morning.
Supporters were left early Wednesday morning looking for silver linings. Eight thousand volunteers manned the campaign to keep same-sex marriage, says Bonauto, and by far most of those people were not gay. "One way or another, after this vote, the people of Maine are not going to allow gay and lesbian people to remain strangers to the law," she says. "Gays and lesbians have met their non-gay neighbors, and they have introduced their families, and their children." In Washington state, voters appeared to have ratified a law passed earlier this year giving its 6,000 registered domestic partners the same state law rights as married couples. Cities as different as Chapel Hill, N.C. and Houston supported openly gay candidates for mayor, though the top-vote getter in Houston will have to win a run-off before she takes office. (Watch a video about gay marriage in America's heartland.)
Still, with the loss in Maine, the focus inevitably turns back to the courts, and for now that means back to California. That's where former U.S. Solicitor General Ted Olson and powerhouse attorney David Boies have brought their suit insisting that the U.S. Constitution forbids any law that prohibits gay marriage. Bonauto won't comment on the criticism gay rights groups heaped on Olson when he filed the case, saying it was premature given the heavily conservative bent of the federal judiciary. But she said to win across the country, gay rights supporters must press the marriage case wherever the fight takes them, be it in courthouses, state capitols or voting booths. "It's never been an either/or choice," she says. "When the issue is one of social justice, we have to get the judicial branch involved. There is absolutely a role for the courts."
Pushing the issue to the courts, however, has paid uneven dividends for gay marriage supporters. While courts have followed Massachusetts's lead in Vermont, New Hampshire, Iowa, Connecticut and California, voters who have had a chance to weigh in have uniformly rejected that thinking.
Maine was supposed to be different. To begin with, it was the first state to legalize gay marriage by statute, and with the governor's support. When the unprecedented new law was challenged, supporters hoped that political backing from the governor, coupled with Maine's traditionally independent mindset, would provide the breakthrough that gay marriage supporters have been waiting for.
The vote prompted an outpouring of cash and other resources from far beyond the borders of the Pine Tree State. From New Jersey, the National Organization for Marriage sent a $1.8 million check to help defeat gay marriage. Gay couples in California and others still heartbroken over Prop 8 vote last year also sent lots of smaller checks to help bring the 'Vote No on 1' coalition some $4 million. On Tuesday, Californians manned phone banks to help encourage the vote, which Maine's Secretary of State told reporters Tuesday was exceptionally large.
But while money may talk in politics, it rarely has the last word. Just ask outgoing New Jersey Jon Corzine, who hugely outspent his opponent, and still lost.
So what now for gay marriage? More of the same for several more years, to be sure. Gay marriage bills are under consideration in New York and New Jersey, and Washington, D.C., city leaders are mulling whether to expand rights for same-sex couples, too. Olson and Boies' case is set for trial in January, and gay activists could learn soon how valid their fears about the federal judiciary are.
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| lemontrail wrote: | | The last bastion of acceptable discrimination. |
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Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 5:49 pm Post subject: |
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| And what about short people? Remember the song: we got no reason to live. |
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lemontrail Lieutenant


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Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 7:55 pm Post subject: |
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Key word here folks is "acceptable". Generally speaking, it is considered unacceptable to discriminate against or harrass minority groups within our society. But it is completely acceptable to deny this particular minority group, gays and lesbians, one of their fundamental rights. Not only is it acceptable to all to many, but it is desired and applauded.
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:21 am Post subject: |
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| We're not denying them marriage, they are more than welcome to marry as long as that marriage is between a man and a woman. The majority of the US doesn't accept gay marriage. Sorry! |
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:24 am Post subject: |
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| telg68 wrote: | | We're not denying them marriage, they are more than welcome to marry as long as that marriage is between a man and a woman. |
That's the most ridiculous thing I've ever read. _________________ Top Music I've Listened to This Week
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:27 am Post subject: |
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And thus, they are denied a fundamental right.The Founders never envisioned a nation where the majority prevailed at the expense of the minority. That's mobacracy, something they abhorred and warned against. They created a republic, where minority rights are equally as important AND protectedas majority rights. Paint it whatever way you wish, and justify and rationalize all you want, but a minority segment of our population is being denied a fundamental right, and there is no excuse for that. It is pathetic at best. _________________ The right to be heard does not automatically include the right to be taken seriously.
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:48 am Post subject: |
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| lemontrail wrote: | | And thus, they are denied a fundamental right.The Founders never envisioned a nation where the majority prevailed at the expense of the minority. That's mobacracy, something they abhorred and warned against. They created a republic, where minority rights are equally as important AND protectedas majority rights. Paint it whatever way you wish, and justify and rationalize all you want, but a minority segment of our population is being denied a fundamental right, and there is no excuse for that. It is pathetic at best. |
Couldn't have said it better. Great post. _________________ Top Music I've Listened to This Week
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 9:34 am Post subject: |
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How about this from a Christian Republican's point of view.
The guy has some good points.
http://www.associatedcontent.com/...this_christian_pg2_pg2.html?cat=9
| Quote: | How a Christian Can Support Gay Marriage
My faith is a huge part of my life. It wasn’t always such an integral part of me, but after dealing with the unexpected death of a very close family member; struggling to help a friend who was abused by her father; and then dealing with a severe bout of
depression during my freshman year of college, I have come to realize how much I need Christ in my life. I firmly believe that as a Christian, I am called to share my Savior’s love and to follow the principles He laid out in the Bible. Because of this, and because my faith is not supportive of the homosexual cause, many people would probably be surprised to hear that I am a proponent of gay marriage; I also find no conflict between my faith and the issue of gay marriage. If you find this to be an interesting (or maddening) contradiction, keep reading.
Firstly, there is an undeniable separation between church and state. Regardless of a person’s person beliefs regarding a particular issue, separation has to be maintained. If there is a law prohibiting gay marriage, why not a law prohibiting spouses from having affairs with other people? Why not a law prohibiting sex before marriage? These are all moral issues, but laws are not made to enforce morality; they are created for the protection of citizens. They are not created to enforce a particular church’s beliefs; they are created on behalf of the state to both defend rights and guard the population. Therefore, even if someone was convinced that homosexuality was wrong, they would have no right to impose that belief on the entire nation.
I am also concerned that allowing government to decide who a person can marry could have very serious ramifications. Do we truly want so much power in hands of imperfect humans? As a Christian, I readily recognize the fallibility of mankind. We make mistakes every day and no one is
exempt. President Bush makes mistakes, former President Clinton made mistakes, the Pope has made mistakes, Gandhi made mistakes, and so has every single person on Earth. Given the nature of human beings, does it make sense to give equally flawed men and women in our government the power to decide who can marry whom? I am convinced it would be a disastrous move to allow this kind of power into corruptible humans.
When making difficult decisions, it is always difficult to keep person prejudices aside. However, it is imperative to remain objective despite personal feelings. Because of this, I strongly encourage you, no matter what your political affiliation or religious beliefs, to support gay marriage. I do.
P.S. No, I'm not a "crazy" liberal; I'm a Republican! |
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 9:47 am Post subject: |
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lemonblah: | Quote: | | And thus, they are denied a fundamental right.The Founders never envisioned a nation where the majority prevailed at the expense of the minority. That's mobacracy, something they abhorred and warned against. They created a republic, where minority rights are equally as important AND protectedas majority rights. Paint it whatever way you wish, and justify and rationalize all you want, but a minority segment of our population is being denied a fundamental right, and there is no excuse for that. It is pathetic at best. |
Blaa blah...blaa, blaa, blah, blah. There is no federal fundamental right to sanction, or legitimize perversion through the institution of marriage. Sorrrrry. Am I politically incorrect? What a bunch of . . . of . . . of silliness. I guard my tongue. So,
| Quote: | | "the founders never envisioned a nation where the majority prevailed at the expense of the minority." |
And your point is . . . what? That the founders envisioned a nation where the minority prevails at the expense of the majority? I guess you and Obama subscribe to the same tyranny the way he is trying to ram his Obamacare against a majority. What about that poor rejected and despised 'minority' of philanderers and adulterers? Huh? Shouldn't they have a right to pursue their adulterousness without being held in contempt and reviled and legal jeopardy? Next a man will want the right to marry his dog, or maybe polygamy should be allowed too. NAMBLA, North American Man Boy Love Association I'm sure would lobby sympathetic liberal sops effectively for men to be able to marry young consenting boys. Of course they'll have to lower the age of consent first.
| Quote: | | where minority rights are equally as important AND protected as majority rights |
What are you talking about? Name me one minority right? There is no such thing. We have the constitution and bill of rights that applies equally to all. As a minority you can't be denied those innumerated rights. I don't remember seeing the right to be a homosexual spouse. Or are you stating incredulously that because you are a 'minority' somehow you have some supra-constitutional ability to make up a 'right' that satisfies your sexual proclivity . . . sorry, perversion, giving you legal protection? You're not making sense. Only babbling inconsequential PC-ness.
| Quote: | | a minority segment of our population is being denied a fundamental right, and there is no excuse for that. It is pathetic at best. |
Why do we need an "excuse" for doing what is right? A minority segment of islamic fascists in our society are being denied their 'minority right' to practice their religion and establish global shariah. Marriage laws are governed by the states and are subject to the legislators and voters of that state. There is no constitutional 'right to get married'. The only thing "pathetic" is the constant harping to try and legitimize and make wholesome a marginalized, sinful lifestyle. _________________ Blessed happy, fortunate, prosperous and enviable is the man who walks and lives not in the counsel of the ungodly (following their advice, plans and purposes) . . . Ps 1 |
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SkygreenLeopard Chief Of Staff

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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:11 am Post subject: |
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| flyupsidedown wrote: | | The only thing "pathetic" is the constant harping to try and legitimize and make wholesome a marginalized, sinful lifestyle. |
Wrong, sir. The thing that is pathetic is you. You and the rest of your group of sad, frightened, backwards religious bigots. I'm embarrassed that I was born in a time where we still have to deal with people like you. I'm embarrassed that I'll have to one day tell my kids/grandkids that we were only removed by a period of a a few decades from actual legislation being passed to please your hate-agenda. I'm saddened that you will never understand, or see what you truly are. That you will more than likely go to your grave the same bitter, hate-filled person living his life based on a misplaced sense of moral superiority.
One day, we will look back and shake our heads at the fact that it was allowed to continue this long. Till then, I will do everything in my power to prevent people like you from shaping ANY part of my, or my family's future. _________________ Top Music I've Listened to This Week
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:45 am Post subject: |
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Flyupsidedown wrote:
| Quote: | | Why do we need an "excuse" for doing what is right? |
Conservatives claim they are against big government.
They want to shrink government. They are for free markets, let the market place decide, keep government out of health care, etc. etc. But wait, when it comes to their religious belief's they want to pass the Gay Marriage amendment, etc, etc. Oh, big government is OK if it's their issue, if it's dictating their religion, their morality.
Which is it conservatives, Fly? Are you really against big government for everything or just what you decide you want for everyone else? _________________ "Don't worry about avoiding temptation... as you grow older, it will avoid you."
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:50 am Post subject: |
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| Outsider wrote: | Flyupsidedown wrote:
| Quote: | | Why do we need an "excuse" for doing what is right? |
Conservatives claim they are against big government.
They want to shrink government. They are for free markets, let the market place decide, keep government out of health care, etc. etc. But wait, when it comes to their religious belief's they want to pass the Gay Marriage amendment, etc, etc. Oh, big government is OK if it's their issue, if it's dictating their religion, their morality.
Which is it conservatives, Fly? Are you really against big government for everything or just what you decide you want for everyone else? |
When it comes right down to it, fundamentalist christians are just as scary and dangerous as fundamentalist muslims. If they had their way, their own version of "sharia law" would dictate every minute details of our lives. _________________ Top Music I've Listened to This Week
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Bitter? Hatefilled? Really, you make me belly laugh. Don't look now but a wave of 'my type' are coming to surround you. We are nephariously isidious and creepy. We are beyond description determined. We work, hard. We worship God and try to live moral lives. We are good citizens and conservative in our politics. We take care of ourselves and pay our taxes, just barely. We try to make headway against the onslaught of gov't intrusion and over taxation. We are horribly exasperated with social liberals determining what is acceptable and right according to their shifting worldview. We have long nails and fangs and a kind of green oozy flesh, aaaAHHHHHH!!! . . . scared myself.
Don't flatter yourself too much. We've always been here and we will always be here. God makes it so.
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